Becoming a parent doesn't mean knowing everything right away, it's growing up with your child. When a child cries, screams or “throws a tantrum”, memories and ways of educating learned when he was in turn a child are activated in the parent. Many new parents today find themselves having to do the double emotional work of trying to break old patterns (for example avoiding or “holding back” uncomfortable emotions instead of questioning them) and at the same time taking care of their children's emotional growth. This is no small job!
You can lighten this burden: - contact your local family counseling center for parenting support groups, psychological interviews or with pedagogists- attend meetings in family centers, playgrounds or nurseries where you can discuss yourself with other parents: you will discover that you are not alone! - ask your pediatrician, general practitioner or social services for information about free or low-cost services in your area. Every time you ask for support, take a step to take care of yourself and make the emotional climate in which your son or daughter grows up safer.